

When you travel with a pet in a city apartment, you automatically find yourself editing your day around a potty schedule.
I am thrilled to announce…
We have successfully learned how to potty on a leash, AND the rain has stopped in NYC and our Central Park grassy patch is now a known home for all things potty. I am also proud to announce. Frida already knows her way home. Seems appropriate she would.
She demands home wherever she is – it is her dog spirit.
This morning after business was complete, I thought I would take her on a little walk for fun.
We got five minutes down the path and she stopped and looked up at me.
I thought, well, she might be holding an extra “email” for someone and needed to pee again.
In Central Park, between 6am and 9am – in certain areas, you can have your dog off leash.
I never let Frida off leash…well at least not in a large public arena.
But, since breaking the law our first night in town…I was feeling brave with her.
She was perfect, didn’t run, didn’t bark, listened when I said “wait.”
But she didn’t potty.
She just started to make her way back to where we entered the park.
“Do you want to go home?”
A scamper began…
“WAIT!”
She did, and on the leash she went and we headed home – I let her lead.
She knew where to stop at Central Park West, she knew where our brownstone was located, right in time for a neighbor walking in with Dunken Donuts. I am wondering if she knew more than I and was hoping for a hook up.
Treats for “Good Potty,” in her new fifty dollar dog bed and off to the shower I went to start my day of adventure at the Guggenheim.
I had purchased a timed ticket for today for a closing show this week.
It was 10:20am.
The shower in the apartment has the most amazing water pressure I have ever felt!
The first day, I had a sense memory of a movie or TV scene where the character was thrown from the tub.
It was that intense.
I have since Googled it – shower pressure scene – yup – Kramer in Seinfeld.
So, with that knowledge, you won’t be surprised – when 10:50 rolled around and my phone was blown up with messages about a certain earthquake in NYC – I had no idea.
Frida didn’t feel it either – she was sound asleep on the bed when I came out to an emergency alert on my phone.
You know the phone that I forgot on Monday?
Jeepers Peepers!
My day off work, a timed-ticket for the Guggenheim and now we are on alert…for an EARTHQUAKE?!
Possible lockdown was being discussed.
I blame Frida.
She had rocked the universe with crazy life skills.
I marked myself “safe,” on Facebook and headed out the door, after one more potty effort.
As I sit here at a local spot, having very good calamari, but now thinking I should have had the baked ricotta…I am struck with how much this already feels like home.
Just like Frida – I knew my way across the park (btw, best place to be if you are to find yourself in an aftershock), engaged with a provocative show call Going Dark – a collection of work over the last three decades concerning the invisibility of certain groups of people. The Guggenheim is one of my favorite places to experience art – the way you have to traverse the rotunda and then forced to revisit the exhibit from a completely different perspective back to the ground, and it felt like home, like I belonged. (Note: headphones are encouraged if you are easily distracted by noise – Frank Loyd Wright didn’t care about acoustics in his design – so it is noisy…I don’t mind, I come prepared).
OH OH OH…AND there was a woman there with an adorable Pomeranian….however, there is no service dog that is a Pomeranian.
I asked docent.
“I noticed a dog below…you guys are not dog friendly are you?”
“Nope…but…”
I stopped her…”yeah…but you can ask for proof about a service dog can you? That is a HIPAA violation.”
She smiled and said, “yeah…there was a lawsuit. I wouldn’t say we are dog friendly, but we can’t do much about it.”
HHMMP…I could have brought Frida.
But the thing is – why would I subject her to all of that energy, and also distract myself from engaging with the art?
She is happy at home.
I left the Project Runway channel on the T.V.
In fact, when I got home – she was still in the bed – didn’t even care that I came back…until I said, “Do you want to go potty?”
Traveling with a chiweenie is always being home.
Traveling with a chiweenie is always keeping it real…even during an earthquake.
Traveling with a chiweenie has taxed me to the core, and at the same time, filled my soul beyond words.
NYC, a city filled with so many experiences, and I want to soak all of them up. But the best part of this adventure…is knowing when I get home, she will want a potty break and then snuggle in for tomorrow’s next event.
Here’s to tomorrow.
Here’s to being brave.
Here’s to all of you.

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